The best $350 I ever spent!

9am I rolled up... Perhaps I should have had a coffee before I went as I did think for $350/hour one would receive coffee!

Anyway, he is very nice to look at, D was right! Sigh! But I have given up on older men!

Anyway, I told him the story and he said that yes supervised access is a good point to start and that is what a court would be advising after his recent attempt on his life. He advised that I get W to agree to see an independent counsellor wrt access to the kids so that W ha support as he said P would be acting in W's interest and not necessarily seeing the whole picture. This is what a court would be demanding if we got there and we have to do mediation first.

Then we got to talking about property... Well lo and behold W is not entitled to half the house! He is entitled to his super and I should offer him some of our artwork (if not all to shut him up) but he has no claim on the house. Seeing it was purchased with shares bequeathed to me and he did nothing throughout our marriage to help grow the portfolio (quite the opposite in fact!) and he made no decisions regarding the management of it then he has no claim. I don't think his mother will be pleased to hear that! The car is mine as it was a gift from my mother and basically he has lived very well for the last 14.5 years courtesy of me. So basically- screw him!