Locks to be changed

First... If you see a stupid g**gle ad on the blog, please click as I get paid for it! LOL! In 12 months I have earned $1.47! Someone on another blog was boasting of a $100 cheque... hmmmmm...


Now back to Friday! I had spoken to Miss I's teacher on Tuesday to say that W would not have unsupervised access to the kids for the time being. I worked 12 hours Thursday and the kids stayed with friends. I knew W was collecting them on Friday but he would have his brother or SIL with him. He turns up alone and the school doesn't want him taking the kids. I got the message half an hour later and rang the office to say that he should have had his bro or SIL with him so it was ok. Apparently he was also told that he was only allowed into the school if I had written a note to that effect that both of us had signed. He was not happy about it, but would he talk to me? Of course not. Had to go through his bro and SIL. SIL wanted me to tell her that I had done this at the school. I sent her an email outlining why he was not have unsupervised access. Miss I spent 45 minutes telling me what a rotten mother I was that night.

Last night Miss I had a sleepover. This friend is new at school this year. I discovered recently from her mum that she too was separated, but that the kids weren't aware of it yet (long story, but he has been working/living away for a while). Well Mum (K) rings last night to ask if J wants to go and spend the day with them. I then had dinner there and had a great time chatting with K. We have so much in common- cooking, food, music, awful estranged hubbies! LOL! So a great night!

Then we get home... On Thursday, after W visited on Wednesday and told me he didn't have a key to the house- didn't know where his car keys were etc, I decided to start using the old key (one of the old fashioned ones) that I knew he didn't have a copy of. Or so I thought. I get home to find lights on which I was pretty sure I had left off. And the screen door was unlocked, and the old lock was unlocked and the other lock was locked that I usually don't lock. I rang BIL. Yes he had been here and apparently he had only taken his medications. I told BIl that W had told me that he didn't have a key and that I would prefer he ring first. BIL tried to tell me that W had rung first, but there was no missed call on messagebank or a call register on calling number display.

So the locks are being changed on Tuesday and I have added the ticker to the top of the blog!