Smelling the roses- literally!

Mediation this morning with SFB (W!). I almost stormed out a couple of times. He has so much blame he keeps throwing at me whilst pretending he is the innocent party. I have reluctantly agreed to the kids spending Friday and Saturday nights with him once a fortnight. I don't think Miss I is that keen on it. He really wants week about custody and that is not going to happen.

I had invited G around to lunch and when I got out of mediation there were a couple of messages from him. I rang him and almost burst into tears because W had been such a bastard throughout the session. I told him he couldn't come around for half an hour as I needed to vacuum! LOL! When he arrived he brought with him 10 long stemmed red roses. I was gob smacked! I don't know what it means at all- more mixed messages! He doesn't say anything to indicate relationship or anything and we spent most of lunch talking about our kids again. I suspect he is as scared as me and doesn't know how to have an adult relationship that won't compromise the relationship he has with his kids. Either that or he knows that red roses might get him a bonk! LOL!