The appointment

An interesting one really. Basically again W was blasted by P and I was actually praised for putting up with his behaviour. At the end of the conversation when I was out paying, P told his receptionist to give me the phone number of a marriage counsellor whom he has mentioned a few times. W was out of the room and I said straight out to P that I doubt W would listen. P said that it may help having another person tell him the same thing. Will look into it tomorrow.

So I come away from these appointments feeling quite supported then W just doesn't follow through. We talked about this and about how narcissistic W is. In my mind he is on his last chance. P told him that I am one of his very few allies and he needs to see me as that and not as an enemy. P praised me for changing my behaviour towards W and also in general to the household.

And in H news... I did send him an email and he thought it was very nice! I can see myself falling for this man and it is scary. Exciting mind, but scary!

Oh and T- I am up this late! Went to a dinner at a restaurant paid for by the P&F for tuckshop volunteers! Was very interesting as the head was there and had a good chat with me! He is leaving and got very candid after a few wines!